Last week my immediate family gathered at my home for the first of our fall family celebrations, the Fall Fathers’ Birthday Party. My dad, my father-in-law, and my sweet husband all have autumn birthdays, so we meet at our house for a Southern meal of comfort food and relaxed conversation. I took a page from my grandmother’s kitchen diary and served up a roast beef dinner, complete with potatoes, carrots, lima beans, and yeast rolls. I even served coleslaw from my great-grandmother’s “slaw bowl,” which prompted reminiscences from my parents about meals at Ann Eliza Cole Whitsett’s bountiful table. My mother-in-law joined the conversation from the perspective of the value of this antique piece of glass, though, in my mind, the bowl is priceless because it belonged to my great-grandmother, who loved me so much.
My mother-in-law is the Dessert Queen, and her contributions to the meal this year met her usual high standard. As her husband loves all things chocolate, she brought a chocolate mousse cake, which has earned the title of “Better than Sex Cake.” (No Comment.) Knowing, however, that my dad isn’t a huge fan of chocolate, she made a homemade apple pie, topped with whipped cream. I personally settled for a second helping of lima beans!
During our visit, our conversation naturally turned to our family’s favorite holiday of the year – Thanksgiving. While we all absolutely love the Advent season and the joys of Christmas, our relatively far-flung family has found the perfect compromise for the confusion of who hosts the Thanksgiving celebration: everyone. For four glorious days, our immediate families trek to a cabin in the Gatlinburg area to share each other’s company and catch up on life’s journeys. We play games, watch TV, hike, and eat. During last week’s birthday party, we three women reviewed our 4-day schedule of menus and chart of responsibilities. With only one refrigerator, we’ve learned that we must not duplicate each other’s efforts. This year the Grandmotherly Generation once again will dish up the Thanksgiving Day meal. Both our mothers have been inundated with caring for aging parents, who have recently passed on, and then with caring for their own health problems (both fell last Christmas and sustained serious injuries). This year they look forward to creating the turkey and dressing, the ham and sweet potato casserole. I’m bringing paper plates – perfect!
I am blessed to have a family that enjoys spending these special times together. I’m reminded of the words of the Psalmist:
Hear my cry, Oh, God, and listen to my prayer....(for) You have granted me the heritage of those who fear your Name. Ps. 61: 1, 6.
I am indeed grateful for the generational succession of those who were and continue to be The People of The Way.
I confess. I am passionate about good food. And, while I'm not what you would call a "picky eater," I have high standards about what crosses my tastebuds. I'm a very small woman, so I won't put just any calories in my mouth, which then go immediately to my waistline. I'd rather go without food than eat bad food. I'm blessed to live in a part of the world where I have this option, knowing that a good meal is just around the corner from me. But, that stream of thought is for another day. (Click on the Compassion widget now.)
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